They will compensate for with food (especially fats, alcohol, and sweets) and urge others to overindulge along with them. So this article is in no way 10% correct describing how a Libra is like when wronged. Like a few here said earlier, there's more to the picture about the signs, you have to look at the sum total of your chart. They're divorced now. I apologize and we move on. We are the balance of all of the signsthe only sign in all the Zodiac that can bridge the void between each sign and become the great arbitrator of the cosmos (Sound grandiose and pompous..welcome to the world of Libra..but..we all also know it's true ;) ). Met my wife in early 2000. Its that I still struggle loving myself and getttin my wants and needs. However, the stuff you put into the Libras mind it stays there. RELATED: What An Aquarius Really Thinks About You, Based On Your Zodiac Sign. The normally outgoing sign can become isolated, and may binge-eat or become too lethargic to do anything. I once got angry at one of my siblings and I zoned out while I was close to their neck to chock them. The world needs more light from you. Now he lives in Japan and if I ask him to get me anything from there he would send me by post, or any info about computers, or hints on how to solve computer problems etc. They are often good at masking how they feel in order to avoid conflict or making other people feel uncomfortable. Because they repress their pain and everybody else's, they have meltdowns. Copyright 2023 Astrology Cosmos on the Foodie Pro Theme. Grow up wife. :( Bad ex maybe? According to the CDC, "more than two in five adults experienced symptoms of anxiety or a depressive disorder in their lifetime." I, am lazy, BUT not because I love doing nothing. Libras are all about relationships and balance and will go at any lengths to acheive this whether its making people feel sorry for them, misusing others for their own gain, exhibiting superficial emotions to have codependent relationships. RELATED: What To Do When A Cancer Ignores You. Because of this, she may start spending time with new people or strengthen relationships with other friends. He said she has to always be the center of attention, will continue to create major drama until she gets what she wants. Yes I can be dark by being extremely lazy and indecisive but everyone has got a dark side. They often enjoy talking about their feelings and may even cry when feeling sad or hurt. me too. Libra guy 2 met me and my husband "TOGETHER" at a college Christmas party. The verbal abuse was ridiculous. People should understand that not every Libran is the same. Pretending to be nice is so much more hurtful than being honest. So if i find your chatty, im out of here. Why, its hard to believe its the same person! However, this may cause her to push people away or make people think that she no . Very nice guy. Sat there listening in while this self righteous weirdo was really out of line! I fucking hate myself when I'm grumpy and it makes it even worse. If you cross my line you're already in the game of life or death for me. He is very intelligent and extremely good at computers/programming and logical science, stuffs which requires a lot of high IQ. This describes her to a T. I couldn't wrap my head around it because I'm not like that. HubPages is a registered trademark of The Arena Platform, Inc. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. "Whoa is me"..libra. Sagittarius' bubbly and outgoing personality is put on hold when they get depressed, causing them to feel lethargic and sometimes even use substances to escape their reality. My ruling element is air, ruling sign Gemini and as a Gemini, I can't stand Librans in general. This will help her reach a state of mind that is more stable and tranquil. Undoubtedly, they are much easier than the older generation, succumb to feelings. When I get angry I yell and scream but if it gets worst I start getting physical and it's scary. Because it's almost impossible to feel sorry for them. Or so I thought. Tired Aries woman sick of the Libra injustice. Caregivers who mask their own emotions can also reinforce the idea that you should do the same . Now i know how to deal with him.. Libras (born Sept. 23 to Oct. 22), for instance, are said to be focused on others and how they relate to them. Mr Libra 2 also had LOT of Scorpio. my libra daughter who is 17 has buddied up with my libra mother and she doesnt understand the evil in my mother. And wanted an apology. yes, avoiding confrontation is not a tenable objective and will lead to outbursts (what's term in the title- yes, repressed); people born in October avoid confrontation, no = can't be proven. Secondly, most of the time we have no absolute clue how to deal with ourselves. Seems to be written by someone who had a bad experience with a Libran and conluded that all Librans are like that one scumbag they once knew..horrible. Last Updated on October 31, 2020 by Sloane Marie. It is true she got older and started having difficulties, I think she basically wore herself out. Most Libras are quick to put a wall up to protect themselves from insecure, jealous, judgemental, negative, condescending people who attack them. I'm a Libra with lots of planets in Scorpio. Break out of your shell and be the life of the party. Scorpios I can handle, I can even handle a Scorpio Moon and an Aries Moon (I am heavily influenced by Pisces!) My experience with a Libran is usually very superficial and passive. But I can agree when there's a negative personality and it's fixated on the sign some ppl are going to agree. Libras are more stable than most. So good luck living. I know that sounds brash, and probably just as bad as how Librans have been painted on here, but there is a very specific driving force as to why I acted the way that I did, and it's because of how how she treated my children. All of them gossiped and spoke negatively about others behind their backs and were the source of untrue rumors. Or is it the karma ? She is conniving, manipulative and a backstabber. I'm a libra myself. If peace cant be had, silence and secrets will do. But my "dark side" is also my "sunny side". A lot of Librans a prone to having gallstones, kidney and dental problems. When sadness tips that balance, they can fall over. Most times anything short of that makes me feel unwanted. I'm Aquarius and many followed after constellations Libra and always pretended I did not notice, but they are so careful people! It's true. This can make it difficult for them to express themselves and may cause them to avoid conflict at all costs. If you dont want to be disappointed keep it flakey & light. I, possibly am the most un-materialistic human being. Manipulators bring nothing but pain and headaches according to any Libra. (tall, thin, blond). Curse you Libra for messing men's life everywhere you go. Most things are always flowery in tone. i have never told her. I feel like a pawn on a chess board to her. Came to help him. Mother, father, uncle whatever..that's ridiculous. She uses people and shes a know it all. I didn't realize it until reading some of the things and saw it was talking about me. I am an Aries woman. I realized that I was obsessed with being in love and finding someone who loves me and takes interest in me, and goes the extra mile for me. he is a great father and husband. but im not fake and i dont try to control her life. Saying Yes When They Mean No Libras hate arguing more than any other sign, so they often try to be agreeable in an attempt to avoid any possible conflict with their partner. I immediately had her pegged as a boyfriend snatcher, took charge and used my partner's phone to phone her back (not knowing her star sign). Only then can they have heightened compulsions, turning into an unrecognizable and impulsive being. Some of you seem quite bitter and let your insecurities show by bashing Libras. I, do want to move out with my boyfriend because i have problem. I highly value: integrity, loyalty, honesty, and friendship. Are looking for the meaning of life, the chronically lazy and manipulate the environment to work for them. We are easily hurt and scarred. We got back together. They lie and pretend they are fine. Remember Libras hate conflict, but they will not tolerate cruelty happening when they can put a stop to it. 10/17 libra seeking balance on September 06, 2016: I am a Libra male and lately I have been feeling disconnected from myself(sign). Obviously, each sign deals with sadness differently, which might be why you feel a deeper connection between you and certain people more than with others; when you get into your lowest lows, these people just get what you're feeling, even without words. I have begun meeting new people like this "dont be fooled, I am not what it seems". Librans are great at handling heartbreaks. I love so deeply and I treat my man like he's a god hoping to get that amount of attention in return but it never happens. She balances that by verbally skewering and humiliating people. 2. I am no drama queen though. The realest women in the zodiac I love their tell it like it is ways. (Sun and moon are in 8th house) but he and i are good people. We'd take up for a stranger in a minute if their being treated unfairly no matter color, race, sex, or religion if its unfair it brings the rage out in us. I remember exactly where I have wronged others and I also remember when and how many times I have compensated for those acts of selfishness or rudeness. I used to believe a long term childhood freind was my true freind. I think it's smart to learn astrology to choose the best time to give birth to a child and choose their planetary influences to prevent many obstacles :P. This is true. Thats how you deal w a libra. I used to call her a best friend but she is far from it. Just that we only show it in private place. In turn, this will give her a chance to build a new life on a strong foundation. I was accused of keeping secrets, not being an open book. I am able to persuade people that my ideas are theirs and if it fails, it is on them. She buys and bribes people with any means. and YES guess sometimes I lose hope. Boy was I so wrong and regretted holding on for so long. When she shares her feelings with you, be certain to show her that you are willing and able to provide her emotional and intellectual support. RELATED: The Negative Personality Traits Of The Scorpio Zodiac Sign, According To Astrology. Absolutely, every sign except for that poison scorp. And for those poor souls who's either or both parents/ brothers or sisters/in laws etc were Librans- Ouch, I truly feel sorry. I really am reevaluating things now for sure!! Libras love with a passion. I DO NOT manipulate people to help myself and I don't cheat and make others feel bad when confronted. They said that the raven people were feared in the tribes because they always new what was going on without hearing a word, they always knew. Whoever wrote thiswrote it in a condescending way towards libraswhat is there zodiac? So Im like that is the craziest thing. Some of them will utter insults and call you all sorts of names under the sun if you upset their inner peace. They can feel like they are no longer in control of their life, so they can start being more impulsive, blind with rage, and even fail to get worked up about their normal habits something that usually keeps them sane. when, in fact, your sign might have some deeper insights into your personality traits instead of just scratching the surface. Show her that you are interested in spending time with her, as this will help you ensure that she does not create any relationships that will cause her to suffer in the future. Their status is important to them before everything, even before their family, they are treacherous and chasing sickly, dressing up as those who are fans so they do not have their own character, for them there is nothing to admire a man who slept with many girls, not considered to be a man, not cool - This is the person they imitate every day and every day until they meet someone greater than him in this field is very shallow, and thus inherently boring dressing up as other people, are subject in any depth. Then i feel bad afterwards and consume chocolates laced with other people's feelings. They might have obsessive thinking and remember every bad event that's happened to them, even blaming themselves for the most innocuous things. Yes I am extremely lazy bit I am actually thinking of ways to understand some concepts an etc. Let him ask a few questions that were way out of line before lost my temper & told him to plz back the hell off. Those born in the first week of October are prone to depression (saturn decan) due to their repressed emotions and hide it so well. When a Libra woman finds herself unable to focus on things that bring her pleasure, then she may become increasingly unsatisfied with her life. I looked each up, the decans explained it well. But the point is we are shit at emotions, because our minds are a major dumping ground, where is so much stuff that the stuff we say and the stuff we believe often go in different directions. Be Mysterious. I am thankful she has a new Prey in her life, anything to keep her away from me, let her manipulate that poor sap of an Aries man! She made me hate my dad for cheating but she herself cheat several times. That would be my control issue. I realize Libras can be a handful and it takes a special person to be with one of us; but may I suggest to all of you that the moment you find out a person is a Libra, turn on your heel and run. They will, only and only if it's required. Aries (March 21 April 19) "While Aries can be charmed by Libra for a while, one thing Aries can't stand is neediness," Monahan says. Well long story longer I could not invited my best friend and family to my own wedding I'm hurt didn't phase her. Furthermore, Libra with Libra Mercury have Mercuries that are either in the morning phase, the evening phase, or combust. Not a single libra I can truly trust. As long as you are not looking for clear advice or decision making, 4) When we love, we love with every part of our heart, we are absolutely ready to drop anything and everything for you. Not all Librans try to make it up to people, but I know a good portion of them out there do. Send them to Neptune with their hiding addiction. This funk can have lasting effects until a Capricorn really gets back to their old self. People try to tap into that vulnerability and "twist the knife" unless I hide it from them. Just my experiences of libras I know. I also appreciate the creativity of this author by portraying Libra's negative image since I was really bored of those charming and peaceful stories about Libras ..cheers and peace. Ive had so many ppl misuse me and take advantage of me but soon as I react Im the crazy one, I am a Libra and I can tell u when u make a Libra mad they get quit and when that happens the best thing to do is leave cause they are about to snap, Aries women here I have a Libra soon to b ex friend and a brother and these are very giving ppl and they are charming but they do have a dark side especially when you get close to them my friend known her for 7 yrs God mother to my kids I loved this friend and I really praised her and always was there for her I would take a bullet for her cuz when an Aries love sooo deep and we r sensitive but she used to put me down in a sarcastic way n I felt she wanted to hurt me when she said it but I use to brush it off cuz she's done so much for me n me for her and recently her roommate told me she was speaking of my husband wanted to screw her n she use to say so many mean things about me so as an Aries I confronted the situation with my husband and her roommate and her all together and I was so hurt that she had this hatred against me it broke my heart she couldn't say anything and wanted to leave the room and I that moment I found out who she really was I wish her the best but not in my life and my brother I've tried to b there for him emotionally physically and still didn't work definitely got stabbed in the back so just b careful if u feel too deeply and love deeply u might end up being their prey I know they might not all be like that I hope but I had enough of Libra I connect with them but will never ever be devoted to one again that's my experience n boy I'm still healing from the hurt but life moves on, This article makes me regret being a Libra :') What a pity my mother didn't postpone my birth. Modern men do not hide their emotions. In love, these people are loyal, as long as you are useful and fit the perfect image they have of how a life with a perfect partner should be. Overall she's just manipulative and controlling, and I doubt all libras are like her. and finally: I ADMIT I'm not perfection BUT try hurt my friends? I, hate when dumb people try to judge or bully me. It was an extremely difficult task. Im a gemini. It is overly exaggerated. But do love a tennis match with a Libra! Libra is one of the most balanced signs, but when depressed, they tend to have feelings of instability and moodiness, with a reduced urge to socialize. Then he stop talking to me. Buts its a ruse. She took the kids and tried to move into a shelter and she didn't even know why. We are not too bulgar to chaos in public. He ignores me somedays pays attention to me other days and never fully knows if he likes me or not lol. 5.) Munay, I am a Libra and I have to disagree on every aspects lol for me personally I do good until Im messed over as soon as you mess over me its over with. 6.) After the beginning of the year she started being more flirtatious. However I met a libra and she's like me but diffrent. We will have justice and we will exact the pain you have placed on us and we will make you feel everything you ever made us feel in one moment. Very childlike. (Mr. Libra perceived that as "popular"). Scorpio's passion can turn negative when they're feeling sad or depressed, causing them to become hostile, isolated, and have violent mood swings. She may be selfish, but this is not meant to be neglectful or abusive. And just reading some of the negative opinions and attacks on Libras by others here, it just reaffirms my choice. Libras are the biggest gaslighters imaginable. Scorpio Ascendant, Venus and Mercury in Scorpio conjunct his Pluto in Scorpio which was in his 1st House. Negative Librans are worrywarts and being or feeling alone is the most horrible thing they can imagine. Something darker? He's been nicer to me than when I was younger, but I can't erase my past memories and my feelings are of a great pain still because I can't forgive him at all even tho he's nice and the most helpful person in my family at the moment. And sometimes I feel terrible about myself because I constantly fight my own feeling of wanting him to rotten in hell, because I feel I shouldn't as he's my brother. Throughout the majority of her life, a Libra woman is aware of herself when she makes decisions. 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They are the most hypocritical people, will never hear the truth from them. i ended up living a lot of my life with my grandmother because my mom would not stop physically abusing me. RELATED: What Makes Sagittarius Different? Great lays. While we were dating i let her know about my one true longtime best friend which was my first ex (gemini)from high school yrs (different schools). Other zodiac signs may be a little bit more subtle about this. But Libra guy 2 created these "conflict triangles" with other people. I am worried that the very same relationship that i have with my parents is what I will have with my wife and kids. They're not really comfortable with people they don't know, so they are usually pretty shy at first. Often, the question "Why?" god if they had only known. They have a bright side as well, and many good traits. she was so nice to outsiders but treated my family and dad like dirt. 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